DBT

DBT

MORE ABOUT DBT

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy

Build Emotional Balance, Strengthen Relationships, and Reduce Self-Destructive Patterns

Do your emotions feel overwhelming or hard to manage? Are you caught in cycles of intense moods, impulsive reactions, or unstable relationships, even when you’re trying your best? Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) can help you build skills to navigate life with more calm, clarity, and self-respect.

At Four Wings Psychology, we offer DBT-informed therapy in the Nepean area and virtually across Ontario. Our compassionate therapists integrate DBT with evidence-based approaches to support emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and long-term healing.

What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy?

DBT is a structured, skills-based therapy that blends cognitive-behavioural techniques with mindfulness and acceptance strategies. Originally developed for borderline personality disorder (BPD), DBT is now widely used to help people understand and manage intense emotions, self-harming behaviours, and relationship struggles.

The “dialectical” part means learning to hold two truths at once. For example:
I’m doing the best I can” andI want to do better.”

DBT helps you:

  • Regulate intense emotions without shutting down
  • Reduce impulsive or self-destructive behaviours
  • Set boundaries and communicate more effectively with others
  • Stay grounded during distress instead of avoiding or exploding
  • Build a life aligned with your values

It’s not just about coping: it’s about creating a life that feels worth living, even in the face of pain.

What Can DBT Help With?

DBT is one of the most researched and effective treatments for:

  • Emotion dysregulation and mood swings
  • Borderline personality traits or BPD
  • Self-harm and suicidal thoughts
  • Anxiety, depression, or trauma symptoms
  • Impulsivity, anger, or reactivity
  • Body image distress
  • Codependency, people-pleasing, or relationship conflict
  • Identity struggles and low self-worth

Whether you’re in crisis or just looking to build better emotional tools, DBT offers practical, proven support.

What to Expect in DBT Sessions at Four Wings Psychology

We offer DBT-informed individual therapy (not full group programs) that is tailored to your needs and integrated with other modalities like trauma therapy, ACT, or emotion-focused work.

In DBT-informed sessions, you may focus on:

  • Mindfulness: learning to stay present and grounded
  • Distress Tolerance: surviving crises without making things worse
  • Emotion Regulation: understanding and managing overwhelming emotions
  • Interpersonal Effectiveness: setting boundaries, asking for needs, handling conflict
  • Self-Compassion & Validation: reducing shame and self-criticism

You’ll learn and practice skills, apply them to real-life situations, and reflect on what’s working. Therapy progresses at your own pace, with a therapist who supports and challenges you.

Why Choose Four Wings Psychology for DBT?

  • DBT-informed therapists with training in emotion regulation and trauma
  • Personalized, one-on-one support (vs. rigid workbook-only models)
  • LGBTQ2S+ affirming, culturally sensitive, and trauma-informed care
  • Integration with other therapies when needed (e.g., ACT, CBT)
  • In-person therapy in Nepean and secure virtual sessions across Ontario

We meet you where you are with structure, compassion, and belief in your capacity to grow.

Ready to Regain Control of Your Emotions and Rebuild Your Life?

Your emotions don’t have to control you. DBT gives you tools to respond (not react) and to build relationships, routines, and inner calm that support your well-being.

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